just got back from our baby scan and we have found out its a girl the missus is far from impressed...
we would like to know what prospects there are for a girl in motorcycle racing (as a child) any advice would be appreciated
You're a fucking weirdo.
she wants the kid on a bike as soon as she can walk I said id find out the options
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 26, 2014, 10:01:09 PM
we would like to know what prospects there are for a girl in motorcycle racing (as a child) any advice would be appreciated
Slim if the child isn't interested....
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 26, 2014, 10:15:45 PM
she wants the kid on a bike as soon as she can walk I said id find out the options
She's a fucking weirdo too in that case. Most people are running around showing everyone scans of the pretty much most important thing they're ever likely to do in life. And you're 'not impressed' it's a girl.
Fucking weirdos.
Quote from: David W on June 26, 2014, 10:21:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 26, 2014, 10:15:45 PM
she wants the kid on a bike as soon as she can walk I said id find out the options
She's a fucking weirdo too in that case. Most people are running around showing everyone scans of the pretty much most important thing they're ever likely to do in life. And you're 'not impressed' it's a girl.
Fucking weirdos.
you misunderstand im over the moon as I wanted a girl but she was convinced it was a boy so she needs a bit of time
*picks up receiver*
"Hello, is that social services?"
;)
Takes a real man to make a girl. I have two. Congrats to you both.
Google Elena Myers.
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 26, 2014, 10:33:21 PM
*picks up receiver*
"Hello, is that social services?"
;)
Takes a real man to make a girl. I have two. Congrats to you both.
Google Elena Myers.
thanks , I have been told this the missus insists she cant be mine
I know of her but wondered if there was anything girls can do over here sorta 8+ bracket other than mini moto etc
:rofl:
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/2012-OSET-16-0-36V-TRIALS-BIKE-/221477320361?pt=UK_Motorcycles&hash=item339113b6a9#ht_1498wt_986
Quote from: 0luke0 on June 26, 2014, 11:01:03 PM
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/2012-OSET-16-0-36V-TRIALS-BIKE-/221477320361?pt=UK_Motorcycles&hash=item339113b6a9#ht_1498wt_986
oooooooooooooooooooooo :azn:
My mate has just bought his 4yr old a 12.5v one.
Just been and collected my PW50 back from Nikki & Haggis as my girls have mastered bicycles and I will be taking them up to the local farm with that and the TY80 and indoctrinating them this summer.
Congrats, girls are ace I have 5.
She could be a marshall
I know Anna and I not being able to have kids has probably made me a bit touchy on the subject, but this thread has wound me up something chronic.
Please tell me this is a wind up and whatever your beautiful little girl decides to do with her life will receive your love and support?
If not...... I look forward to seeing you on Jeremy Kyle.
and apologies for being touchy if I've misread the situation....... my wife thinks you're a c**t...... I don't
You get what you are given with kids. You will give them unconditional love irrespective of their life choices (unless they turn into axe murderers)
You can help nurture THEIR interests by supporting and funding it, but you cannot make them like something because you do.
Quote from: ash on June 27, 2014, 09:13:10 AM
You get what you are given with kids. You will give them unconditional love irrespective of their life choices (unless they turn into axe murderers)
You can help nurture THEIR interests by supporting and funding it, but you cannot make them like something because you do.
personally I just want to wrap her in cotton wool and lock her up till shes thirty but the missus wants her to like bikes as she will be brought up around them etc
That's great news fella. I have to agree, you are a wierdo!
Quote from: Stuno1 on June 27, 2014, 09:41:34 AM
That's great news fella. I have to agree, you are a wierdo!
it seems to be the general reaction
I've been branded a weirdo too, it's probably an accurate description of me to be fair.
Embrace it and use it to make people laugh :afro:
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 09:39:08 AM
Quote from: ash on June 27, 2014, 09:13:10 AM
You get what you are given with kids. You will give them unconditional love irrespective of their life choices (unless they turn into axe murderers)
You can help nurture THEIR interests by supporting and funding it, but you cannot make them like something because you do.
personally I just want to wrap her in cotton wool and lock her up till shes thirty but the missus wants her to like bikes as she will be brought up around them etc
I've seen pushy parents whipping their kids along at horse show as they are trying to live their own dreams through them. It isn't pleasant.
The most you can hope for is that they are happy with their lot and enjoy good health. If they really enjoy something, then help them, if they don't, accept it with good grace.
We would never try forcing her into bike racing may give her a slight nudge etc just wanted to see what options are out there in the male dominated sport
Congratz - Girls rock and they love their Daddys!
Quote from: 0luke0 on June 26, 2014, 11:01:03 PM
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/2012-OSET-16-0-36V-TRIALS-BIKE-/221477320361?pt=UK_Motorcycles&hash=item339113b6a9#ht_1498wt_986
My mate has one of these for his 5 year old, awesome! You can control the power with a screwdriver at the back, older they get the more power they get!
Looking at OSET bikes for my lot if they show an interest in doing trials.
QuoteLooking at OSET bikes for my lot if they show an interest in doing trials.
Wouldn't a wig and gown be what they'll need if they want to do trials?
I hope so but it depends ;)
your a wierdo.....
and congratulations, ive got two girls and a boy and must say that you cant beat getting cuddles off of them when you walk through the door after a day at work.
and as for getting them involved in anything bike related, wait, they may prefer horses.
Quote from: captain sensible on June 27, 2014, 12:56:58 PM
and as for getting them involved in anything bike related, wait, they may prefer horses.
Don't I just know that.....
Before you start buying bike gear and planning the baby's future on track I would say wait until the miracle is complete and you hold in your hands a hopefully happy healthy baby.
When that moment comes the whole of the universe will seem very insignificant (including this bike forum).
Never take for granted how lucky you are to create a life, it's very insulting to read how matter of fact you and your partner are and how she is disappointed in what she will have.
I hope all goes well for the rest of the pregnancy and your child and partner have no complications.
Quote from: captain sensible on June 27, 2014, 12:56:58 PM
your a wierdo.....
and congratulations, ive got two girls and a boy and must say that you cant beat getting cuddles off of them when you walk through the door after a day at work.
and as for getting them involved in anything bike related, wait, they may prefer horses.
Amen to that, One of mine did, the other one didn't despite my original preconceptions that all little girls want a pony.
Quote from: Coxy on June 27, 2014, 02:12:43 PM
Before you start buying bike gear and planning the baby's future on track I would say wait until the miracle is complete and you hold in your hands a hopefully happy healthy baby.
When that moment comes the whole of the universe will seem very insignificant (including this bike forum).
Never take for granted how lucky you are to create a life, it's very insulting to read how matter of fact you and your partner are and how she is disappointed in what she will have.
I hope all goes well for the rest of the pregnancy and your child and partner have no complications.
+1..... I'd also wait and see if you can afford the time and money to go racing with your bundle of joy once you've done and bought everything else that needs doing.
The closest I have are my niece and nephew and Sunday afternoons are spent sat quietly at the table doing homework together so she can be clever and save the world..... her priorities, not any of ours!
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 05:05:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
im terrible when it comes to my nieces boyfriends ive always had to approve , so if I have my way she wont know boys exsist till shes thirty
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 05:05:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
My daughter brought her first boyfriend home after I insisted on meeting him. When he'd gone she asked me if I liked him.
I replied "He's still got his teeth hasn't he"
Quote from: Chrispy on June 27, 2014, 05:30:12 PM
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 05:05:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
My daughter brought her first boyfriend home after I insisted on meeting him. When he'd gone she asked me if I liked him.
I replied "He's still got his teeth hasn't he"
I did slip up a little while back my great nephew has just turned one , but hes a lovely bundle of joy and the dad aint a bad chap bloody terrified to death of me though bless him
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 05:05:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
I hear this sort of talk all the time, but the reality is that if they do hook up or move in with someone you know nothing about or disapprove of when the have either come of age or close too, you are in all reality left impotent. You have to let them make their own decisions, and hope that you as a parent have managed to instill a degree of common sense in them. If they fail, then that is part of lifes' lessons.
Been there done that....
Quote from: Chrispy on June 27, 2014, 05:30:12 PM
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 05:05:59 PM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 27, 2014, 03:52:22 PM
as I get more and more used to having a girl I want to cover her in bubble wrap a lot more
You think like this now, wait until she arrives.
Since my two have been born I have the firearms licence and shotguns all ready for when "boyfriends" hit the scene in approx 10 yrs time.
My daughter brought her first boyfriend home after I insisted on meeting him. When he'd gone she asked me if I liked him.
I replied "He's still got his teeth hasn't he"
As long as mine don't bring home a fighter pilot...... Nothing but trouble!!!
Quote from: The Wizard of MOz on June 27, 2014, 06:30:07 PM
As long as mine don't bring home a fighter pilot...... Nothing but trouble!!!
That's a bit unfair...........2 or 3 of the 100's I've meet have been ok.
You never know Moz, it could be worse, they could bring back a reg Gunner.
QuoteI hear this sort of talk all the time, but the reality is that if they do hook up or move in with someone you know nothing about or disapprove of when the have either come of age or close too, you are in all reality left impotent. You have to let them make their own decisions, and hope that you as a parent have managed to instill a degree of common sense in them. If they fail, then that is part of lifes' lessons.
Been there done that
Mate, I think that you are spot on with this, and with a three year-old daughter, I'm pretty terrified about the challenges that the future is likely to hold!
Blimey, I honestly don't know how to respond to this post. I'm hoping it's all very tongue in cheek.
Let's hope she's born happy and healthy and brings joy to everyone around her. And you to her too...
Why the fuck would you want her to race bikes anyway?
Weirdo!
thank you foo on a serious note aslong as shes a healthy and happy baby and as least like her mother as possible I will be a happy man
its just something we spoke about when she found out she was pregnant only thinking at kid lvl sort of 80cc level just wondered what was about and if anyone had raced as a child and or had there children race , and I was hoping that if she gets into bike racing she wont notice boys for a bit or atleast not have time for them
she will probably want a pony anyway either way im sure she will cost me a bloody fortune and be a pain in the bum just like her mother but like her mother will probably have the same cheeky smile and be able to get around me no problem....
My dad has always been into bikes and it's all his fault they are my passion too..
I used to ride pillion as soon as I could touch the pegs. He also taught me to ride one as soon as I could keep it upright. I remember him teaching me in a motox bike. He used to have to hold the bike up when I started and I'd have to stop next to him so he could catch re bike as it was WAY to big for me..
That said, he came to donington to watch me race in 2006, stayed for half the day and then announced he couldn't watch me anymore and went home. So be careful what you wish for! He hated me racing and used to panic when I did. I was an adult at the time too... Being a parent myself I can't begin I imagine what it would be like to watch one of my daughters racing - im hoping ballet will be their chosen hobby.
you have made me think twice foo you really have I suffered some horrific injury's back in my youth from racing (actually ended it) and I cant imagine seeing that happen to my daughter she's not even here yet and just the thought makes me want to cry , the missus wants her to , possibly because she never got to (thank god as she is lethal) but it makes me a hypocrite if I don't let her(im no longer intending on pushing her in the direction) but at the same time I could always try bribing her with a pony
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 28, 2014, 10:35:49 AM
you have made me think twice foo you really have I suffered some horrific injury's back in my youth from racing (actually ended it) and I cant imagine seeing that happen to my daughter she's not even here yet and just the thought makes me want to cry , the missus wants her to , possibly because she never got to (thank god as she is lethal) but it makes me a hypocrite if I don't let her(im no longer intending on pushing her in the direction) but at the same time I could always try bribing her with a pony
That is not a cheap option either, and certainly not without risk
Quote from: ash on June 28, 2014, 10:59:14 AM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 28, 2014, 10:35:49 AM
you have made me think twice foo you really have I suffered some horrific injury's back in my youth from racing (actually ended it) and I cant imagine seeing that happen to my daughter she's not even here yet and just the thought makes me want to cry , the missus wants her to , possibly because she never got to (thank god as she is lethal) but it makes me a hypocrite if I don't let her(im no longer intending on pushing her in the direction) but at the same time I could always try bribing her with a pony
That is not a cheap option either, and certainly not without risk
completely agree with you if she horse rides she will wear full leathers spine protector neck brace and a dam good helmet!! on a serious note I don't know why horse riders don't use spine protectors
They do. This is my eldest going over a fairly substantial jump made from telegraph poles when she was 15 or 16 on a cross country course. There is no give whatsoever in that.
(http://oi61.tinypic.com/o0se2a.jpg)
Under her fleece she was wearing one of these
(http://www.millbryhill.co.uk/equestrian-530/for-the-horse-rider-587/horse-rider-body-protectors-609/airowear-reiver-protector-17125-18650_zoom.jpg)
When it goes wrong, you can have 1/2 tonne of horse rolling on you like this chap, fortunately he was wearing an air bag jacket
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnP9ag37-aQ (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnP9ag37-aQ)
The air bag jackets were developed for horseriders, and are now moving in to motorcycling. It saved this rider from either paralysis or death in this instance. It was this type of accident specifically which put Christopher Reeve in a wheelchair (rotational fall)
that's either a massive horse or she is very petite indeed ive never seen a horse rider (in public) wear protection other than a helmet I did imagine there must be some sort of protection for competition ive seen a few horses get spooked by road vehicles (motorbikes come to mind) and seen them chuck off there riders with no real protection and its a long way down
I spent 11 years doing 3 day eventing and had my fair share of falls both in competition and out for a hack, and falling off a horse from a jump bloody hurts.
As for not seeing the protection, that doesn't mean that it's not there, there are a number of options that can't be seen under a decent jacket.
Mind you me and Sara have already agreed that if the kids are willing to stick to riding, be it on horse back or motorcycle then we will look at taking it further, but at the moment we are still not too sure about spaghetti.
I've always said that I'd support my girls in any hobby they decided to do (within reason). So if it is bikes they want then I'll support them and ensure they are as safe as possible, however it's not something I'd encourage. Thankfully as my eldest has been around bikes all her life she now hates them, and says racing is 'boring' (her words). She does love to watch the sidecars - but far more interested in princesses :)
at the rate were going I wont have the money for her to do anything slightly dangerous , £900 for bloody buggys £1400 for a dam cot I don't think ive ever sworn so much in a shop
eBay is your friend. I bought all my stuff off there. Temping as it is to buy new and the greatest, you'll save yourself a fortune lookin on eBay.
that's what ive told kat she wants on of these all singing all dancing buggys that's a car seat aswell? I could buy a decent bike for the price shes funny about used stuff which is stupid why would I wanna spend a fortune on something she will outgrow in a year
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 29, 2014, 03:54:59 PM
that's what ive told kat she wants on of these all singing all dancing buggys that's a car seat aswell? I could buy a decent bike for the price shes funny about used stuff which is stupid why would I wanna spend a fortune on something she will outgrow in a year
Yes, you are right, spending stupid money on cots and pram systems which they are in and out of in a few months makes little sense. I sold my CBX750 back in 1990 (for what would be £4-4.5k in todays money) to buy all that integrated baby care shit. The money was gone in an instant, it was mostly worn out by the time we had the 2nd baby 2 1/2 years later, and it took me another 10 years to get another bike. If your missus is giving up work until the baby goes to school, you will be living the Tesco's value life for the next 5 years. You need every penny you can hang onto when the car needs work for the MOT, or other big bills come in.
As we were looking after my now 4 year old grandaughter ever weekend overnight from a month old, we had to make a nursery up, and effectively double up on all the baby care stuff her mum has got. You can do it just as well 2nd hand, and there is some excellent stuff out there. You rarely find the keep up with the jonses mentality with people expecting their 2nd kid. They make do.
Quote from: Coxy on June 27, 2014, 02:12:43 PM
Before you start buying bike gear and planning the baby's future on track I would say wait until the miracle is complete and you hold in your hands a hopefully happy healthy baby.
When that moment comes the whole of the universe will seem very insignificant (including this bike forum).
Never take for granted how lucky you are to create a life, it's very insulting to read how matter of fact you and your partner are and how she is disappointed in what she will have.
I hope all goes well for the rest of the pregnancy and your child and partner have no complications.
+1
The more you post about your misses the more I think she's a selfish bitch, there are a lot of women out there who have gone through hell and back and never been or ever will hold their own child in their arms.
On another note I have 3 children (all grown) 2 boys, 1 girl, only my daughter was interested in learning to ride, I now have a 2yr old granddaughter and another due any day now, if they are interested I will teach & nurture a love of riding bikes, if they don't who cares as long as they are happy, there are some dam good women riders out there, sadly I doubt you'll see them race against Rossi or his playmates, women lack that little screw that's lose lol
Quote from: HP on June 29, 2014, 08:48:54 PM
women lack that little screw that's lose lol
nah it's just a different screw they have loose LOL
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 29, 2014, 03:54:59 PM
that's what ive told kat she wants on of these all singing all dancing buggys that's a car seat aswell? I could buy a decent bike for the price shes funny about used stuff which is stupid why would I wanna spend a fortune on something she will outgrow in a year
Bugaboo stuff is great and classed as the 'all singing all dancing', plenty of full kits on ebay and often gumtree too.
Quote from: dannyboy on June 30, 2014, 10:33:28 AM
Quote from: Carbon_ZX6R on June 29, 2014, 03:54:59 PM
that's what ive told kat she wants on of these all singing all dancing buggys that's a car seat aswell? I could buy a decent bike for the price shes funny about used stuff which is stupid why would I wanna spend a fortune on something she will outgrow in a year
Bugaboo stuff is great and classed as the 'all singing all dancing', plenty of full kits on ebay and often gumtree too.
ill have a look cheers mate
IF she likes bikes she could be the first girl to break through into big-time racing. Bring her up with this attitude and she'll get to the top. Someone has to be the first.
Don't start her off with the 'you weren't allowed to compete because you were a girl, so there was nothing we could do'.
Quote from: Nat on June 30, 2014, 12:15:06 PM
IF she likes bikes she could be the first girl to break through into big-time racing. Bring her up with this attitude and she'll get to the top. Someone has to be the first.
Don't start her off with the 'you weren't allowed to compete because you were a girl, so there was nothing we could do'.
oh why did you have to go and say that............. (looks at prices of toddler leathers)